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How to be a Housewife (Without Feeling Like a Slave)

Now, don't get the wrong idea here... I'm not sending a passive aggressive message out there to men (do men even read blogs?) that women hate doing house duties. We love it - right, ladies??? (wink, wink) And I'm not complaining either. (Although I do despise laundry, I love a clean house; so it's a double-edged sword.) One thing I'm BIG on is positive thinking. Sometimes, it is hard to be positive if you are feeling overwhelmed with dishes, laundry, cleaning, cooking... oh yeah... LIVING IN and maintaining a home. So, I thought sharing my thoughts on this topic could maybe help some disgruntled wifeys out there.



1) Don't hate, delegate- I'm a huge fan of starting young with manageable tasks around the home. There are a bunch of lists floating around the interwebs of chore lists for kiddos, and a lot of them are pretty dang silly (one suggests letting a 2-3 year old put dishes away, um no!)  -- but my favorite one is fromKids Activities Blog. 

2) Be thankful - It's easy for us to list all the things we are thankful for leading up to Thanksgiving, but there are plenty of things to be thankful for day-to-day. I'm lucky (spoiled), and my husband makes dinner almost every night. We always thank him for dinner. We also ask each other what is something we are thankful for, what is something funny that happened today, etc. (More on our dinnertime questions here)

3) Get up early (earlier) - What is that, you say? "I already get up at 5:30 flipping AM, Tara, should I even bother going to sleep?" I feel your pain! I can't even think about waking up without my daughter sensing it and beating me to it. Make it 15-30 minutes earlier. Plenty of time to put on some coffee, fold and put away a load of laundry or unload the dishwasher.

4) Make it part of your routine - I know some families that designate a day or two a week for a laundry extravaganza. If this works for your family, then excellent! I prefer doing small loads daily (start a load when the last kid is bathed and in pajamas) and just make sure to get it in the dryer before the rest of us go to bed. If I think about it, I sometimes get the clothes folded and put away each night too. Dishwasher usually gets ran every other night. Obviously this depends on the size of your family.

5) Speed clean - Ruth over at Living Well Spending Less wrote an excellent blog post about Speed Cleaning. In fact, everything Ruth puts on her blog is absolutely amazing... I think speed cleaning is best accomplished if you treat it as a race with a definite time limit. If you are stopping ever couple of minutes to check your phone, read your email or look at what everyone else is up to on Facebook, you will be much less speedy and efficient with your time.

6) Simplify - Are you stuffing 8 pairs of clean socks into a sock drawer of about 20 more pairs? Me too; I actually just did this exact thing this morning. Simplify, honey. The less stuff there is around, the less stuff there is to get dirty and need cleaning. This goes for EVERYTHING in your house. Garage sale season is around the corner; get to simplifying! I LOVE this 40 bags in 40 days challenge that was designed for Lent, but I believe you can start it at anytime. I missed starting this for Lent, but I may just do it in preparation of my first summer garage sale.

7) Make your space pretty - I know that there is little that is fun about laundry, but think about how much better it would be if you were doing laundry in a cute laundry room instead of a dark, bare-walled, messy little room (mine has no windows) where lint goes to die? Spruce up the rooms where you do your slave labor (kidding), and you will find more joy in hanging around in there. Other rooms that could use some sprucing up? The kitchen, the bathrooms, heck the whole house!

8) Stop comparing - Especially if both adults in the home are working, it's easy to feel like the housework load isn't always equally divided. If you are able to delegate some of the housework to other members of the family, great! But if you aren't, and the buck does stop with you, then stop comparing. Stop counting the loads of laundry that you have done that week that someone else hasn't had to do. Stop thinking about how many times you have vacuumed up a mess that someone else has made. Just stop thinking about it like that. All this will do is cause major angst and major issues. And guess what? The chores will still be there after you are done throwing a hissy fit.




Comments

  1. Thank you for your ideas, I really think they will help. I get overwhelmed and frustrated sometimes and its good to know other women feel the same way. One suggestion I can add is have your kids help declutter the house before bedtime. Even my two year old helps when he sees the big kids doing it. I also bought some plastic baskets at the Dollar Tree for them to gather their toys, books, etc, so they can make one trip to put their stuff up in their room.

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    1. That is an excellent idea Erin! Thanks for sharing :)

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  2. I'm sure sorry that you feel that way and felt you needed to respond in such a negative way. As I stated first and foremost, I was merely serving some suggestions to help people feel less stressed. And I will continue to say heck, and whatever else I want, because it is my blog and I can post whatever the heck ;) I want. So thanks for stopping by, and please know that your bullying isn't going to be acknowledged any further.

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  3. Thank you right now I'm on pintrest I stead of cleaning my son's room cause its so messy haha I also despise laundry and that's a great idea to do it in small loads. Thanks for the tips :)

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    1. I did the exact same thing (cleaned and reorganized my step sons room) two weeks ago! Glad I was part of your break from the work. I have definitely found I hate laundry less when there is less to fold

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  4. If you're doing laundry at 9:00 at night after working outside the home, cooking dinner, cleaning the kitchen, helping with homework and bedtime routines, you really don't care how "cute" your laundry room is.

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    1. I also wanted to point out that "lent" is a religious period before Easter; "lint" is the stuff you clean out of your dryer.

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    2. Yes you are absolutely correct, except it is also capitalized ;) thanks for the correction!

      And you may not care if areas of your house are "cute" with how busy you sound, but I do.. May be silly to you but I like decorating so to each their own.

      Thanks for stopping by!

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    3. I like my laundry room cute too Tara, and thanks to my awesome hubby it's a cozy little place. I don't have kiddos yet and I'm still up doing laundry after working all day and I'm glad to have a warm, nicely decorated room to do that in!

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  5. I Love all these suggestions. I actually do several of them also. It's amazing how the smallest thing can make your day run so much smoother.

    While I am here let me say it's 9:42 and I just finished my last load of laundry for today.... Doing laundry for a family of seven I can assure you that one big help to me in keeping it all caught up IS a cute and tidy laundry room. When it is messy and unorganized I very much dread having to go in there. I loath doing laundry but like you love clean clothes. A nice, clean, cute laundry room IS a help in my laundry motivation area.

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  6. These are excellent tips! The haters are just too embarassed to admit that they actually relate to every single one of them and are just too high and mighty to fess up to not having their *heck* together (<-- not the word I really wanted to use there). In any case - you handled them so well!

    On to business - having a cute laundry/bathroom/kitchen/any room makes me feel SO much more motivated to keep it clean and tidy! Plus getting little things done throughout the day helps a ton so at the end of the day I can hang out with Chris and have a few minutes of precious moments with him before I crash for the evening. It is truly about finding that perfect balance of housework and doing the level of what feels DONE to you and downtime. To each their own! :) xoxo

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    1. Thanks for the love, cous!!!! After revisiting this post to comment on comments, I am reminded a) how much I despise laundry and b) how ugly my laundry room currently is. :) Need to rectify that!

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  7. Wanted to comment but I never can remember my credentials for WordPress (clearly, I do not blog, lol) but this is Brandy Gardner! I think your blog is super cute, GO YOU for putting out positivity and light! Just wanted to say I enjoyed the read!

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    1. HEY BRANDY! So glad you gave my blog a read. I am all about the positivity and light, sister. Especially here in Chicago, where both positivity AND light seem to disappear completely during the winter months! ;) Thanks for saying hello :)

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  8. hi..lovely post!!!I was just wondering if you would love any guest posts in the area of empowerment and optimism targeted at housewives and working mums...I'd love to keep in touch with you!!

    Cheers,
    Jassie

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    1. Hi Jassie! Better late than never, right?!? I would love to chat about a guest post!! Send me a message at taraboyd24@gmail.com!

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  9. I am soo glad that I found your blog. I usually do not read them. I am struggling in the same areas. It is refreshing to know that I am not alone in this struggle. Keep on being positive. I am finding that clutter can have an effect on our moods.

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  10. I have a blog but can't remember the dang info on my phone ( lazy me has that stuff saved on computer lol). Just wanted to say I love this post. I can also relate to the needing a cute laundry room, or house. I'm a writer so it's a lot easier to get motivated to write when the house is a clean one.

    I'm awake now at 5 am though I don't need to be and about to go start my son's laundry before his next feeding. :).

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  11. Your last paragraph, about comparing, is so me. I get so caught up in being home all day, that I start comparing and I make my husbands and my life miserable. I guess hearing from someone else who has felt the same helps. And you are so right, the work is still always there. Thanks for the tips and advice!

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    1. I still struggle with comparing, especially when I am tired and cranky. So.... I feel ya there sista! Thanks for reading and commenting ❤️

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  12. I love all of your suggestions! There are days when I don't know how I'll get it all done, but it is very nice to know I'm not alone! I also can't believe half of the negative comments I read. This is a blog people, if you don't like what a post entails, don't bother reading it. And sure as "heck" don't comment on it! lol

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    1. Whittney, thanks for the positive love!! I don't get the negative Nancy's either, maybe they are fussy over huge piles of laundry ;) thanks for reading and taking the time to comment!!! Xoxox

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  13. When I saw the title, I thought it was going to be one of those "whiny" posts. Still I clicked. And I was so encouraged! You are spot on. When I start to complain about the fiftieth (hyperbole here) load of laundry that day, I am working on being thankful for those who wear them. And a washer that works. (I have had times in the last few years that mine did not.) And a laundry room with a place to hang them. And.....well you get the idea. Pleasant surroundings that are not cluttered keeps me from being overwhelmed. I have grown kids, and am still working on this because there was not this advice when I was younger. Keep on talking and encouraging. :)

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    1. Hi Sherry! I'm so glad that you clicked, read and commented. Thank you!!! Isn't it crazy how the laundry never ends?? I feel like this (feeling overwhelmed and grumpy) is something that a lot of adults can attest to, especially when there are little people in the house! Thanks again for commenting!! I'm glad you enjoyed the post :)

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  14. This is a very realistic view of dealing with chores. I really appreciate that.

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    1. I appreciate that you appreciate that!! :) thanks for reading!

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  15. Thanks for the "pick me up words". They made me smile. Sometimes I feel like I'm in a rut. Does anyone else feel like this at times? I will use your words and push through my work, and getter done. Besides, what do I have to complain about. My hubbie does all of our laudry! How awesome is that?

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  17. Complaining that someone is complaining? Good job there.
    Why bother commenting negatively on a blog you needn't read/reply to?
    I clean a lot and I really enjoyed reading this blog, not just for it's helpfulness but for the way Tara writes and expresses herself.

    And if you copy her saying 'heck' because you find it annoying, then I should copy every word you've written because I found your entire comment annoying.

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  18. Thanks for having my back MAX!!!! :)

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  19. Hi, first time I have come across your blog and tips like these are very helpful as it reminds us that we are not alone in having continuous streams of laundry, clutter, and all the other things that being a stay at home mum entails. I will now save this blog and look in . Cate

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    1. Thanks Cate!! Happy to have you! New content on the way, as I come up for air juggling two ankle biters ;)

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  20. Heavens! People have soooo much time on their hands to be able to not only read your blog but also leave such niggly comments. Personally, I think the naysayers are just gritty and a little jealous that you manage to achieve your chores AND inject some satisfaction, joy even, whilst doing them. No one is forced to read your words, or act on them. Each to his (or her) own. Anyway, must dash and crack on with my laundry!

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  21. This post actually made me feel worse! I came here looking for help and all you gave me is stop complaining, do everything. I already do that! I work full time do all the cleaning, cooking, shopping, the only thing I don't do is cut the grass! I do feel like a slave and your answer is get up earlier and think positively?

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    1. Sorry you didn't find my suggestions helpful, Lipstic. I have found in a lot of the areas in my life that positive thinking IS a huge game changer, but that is just my experience. What do I know?! Certainly not enough for this blog post specifically to be read thousands and thousands of times over. I'm going to go do laundry now in my super pretty laundry room while my perfectly behaved children do finger painting on my white bed spread without making a single mess. (Obviously this is beyond sarcastic, but goodness gracious, lighten up a bit! It is what you make of it. Sorry, I don't usually respond to the negative comments, but all I'm trying to do is help, and if it doesn't help you, go pay a professional for something that will!

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    2. LOL love the last comment Tara! But yes a positive attitude goes a long way. People fail to realize they are their own worst enemies. When you choose to focus on the negative, the negative will gladly invade your life, so why not focus on the positive like actually having a job that keeps you busy and paid well enough to buy groceries, cook dinner, and afford a place to live that you complain about cleaning. Appreciate what you have and take pride in taking care of it. Are all days going to be sunshine and rainbows? Nope...but sometimes you have to be thankful for the rainy days too! great tips Tara...proud of you chica!
      -Kat Ramirez

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    3. Wah, Lipstic. I think there were some very good tips. Simplify. Wake up earlier to get a hold of yourself before everyone else.
      If you're doing everything, you're doing it wrong. I don't even work full time and my daughter unloads the dishes and loads on days I'm at work late and tired. Each daughter has a bathroom to clean. Oldest folds laundry and leaves the piles on each persons bed. My youngest dusts and takes out the recycling, and on easy dish days, she loads the dishes.
      If I could add one more tip it would be. Accept you're never DONE. Laundry is never DONE. Shopping is never DONE. Vacuuming is never DONE. You have to constantly do these things, so find a frequency that is least taxing on you. I'm not saying you need to lower your standards, but if your expectations can not be met and it's stressing you out, CHANGE YOUR EXPECTATIONS!

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    4. It's 2 years later, I no longer work outside the home. I'm now a housewife, I now have time to get up earlier, make things pretty. For the people that tell me I should get the kids to help well my kids are covered in fur so they won't be much help. And yes everything is still up to me to do 2 years ago I reached out desperate for help and maybe I didn't phrase things in the best way. But instead of the support i needed I got backlash. More of the same really.

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  22. I appreciate your candid and very practical thoughts. I did it all for many years, until a recent disability. I am so grateful that my loving husband has been carrying the biggest load for me now. Granted, it's actually therapy for me now to do laundry and the dishes. I am just glad I can move a little each day, as the long-term results of this illness will leave me bedridden.
    Be grateful for each day, because you never now what your tomorrow will be...

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  23. Really enjoyed reading this. Every bit of wisdom will always be valuable to someone. Who cares about the one out of 20 who doesn't agree. You can begin to feel like a slave being a stay-at-home mom. I have felt that way and have had to beg God to help me through it. And I realized it's all about perspective. That's what your article points out.........perspective. Thanks.

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  24. I'm a stay at home mom (judgement always commences when I say that), nursing student, and work a little during the month with dementia patients. It's nice to know that sometimes other people often feel a little like a slave as well. I appreciate the fact that my husband and I worked it out so I can stay home and raise our daughter (it saves my family money that way). I'll definitely be using some of these tips. I also find it much easier to make every room in my home pretty because when its clean I can step back and appreciate its beauty and how big of a deal it is for me to be 29 and own my home. Thanks for your post!

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  25. Just saw your blog on pinterest and thank you for writing it because, how ever silly they may sound to others, women who are left with the brunt of the work do feel overwhelmed and tired. I only have one child and sometimes it can just be *too* much.

    Definitely waking up before my kid, even if it's just 10 minutes, lets me take in the morning slow. Even just wake up fully before hitting the ground running. One load of laundry daily helps big time! Especially since we line dry! And the last point, comparing who does more of what. I know I sound like a broken record sometimes to my husband and he always feels like I'm saying that he doesn't do enough. When really, I just want him to acknowledge that being home all day is work too.

    And yes! Declutter, declutter, declutter! Always makes clean up easier and simpler when you feel less crowded by stuff.

    Thank you!

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  26. Im a stay at home mom of 5, I babysit my best friends twins . my kids eyes are 6,4,3,2,and 4 monthes. I'm always looking for encouragement from others to help me with keeping up on the house work. Thanks for the great ideas.

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  35. Hi, is a true life experience is not designed to convince you its a personal health experience, sometimes medical doctors take a different approach about herpes treatment. i has been stocked in bondage with herpes for two years and four months i has tried different means to eliminate this sickness because it surely has distract me even with the world, and i was told there is no cure, but only medicine for treatment all the possible ways i has tried was treatment, two months back i did some herpes research and i found amazing testimonies concerning natural herbal cure, and i go for it through the email address from the post just to give a try of herbal treatment, and i found it grate without delay i got cured with natural treatment from doc Twaha herbal cure his cure are powerful and shows out excellent result. and i think everyone suffering with herpes and others symptoms should also know about this cure from, drlregbeyen10000@gmail.com or WhatsApp him +2349038518881 thank you

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  36. i am here to share out my testimony on how i got back my husband, i am a lady with 2 kids i am from Indian, my husband left me and his kids for about 12 months i go through a lot of pain i do all i could to make him returned to me and to his kids but nothing works out. It was really a stressful period for me because I could not go through the heartbreak. I was told to get a love spell doctor to help me out, which I did. I was lucky to get DR.COROBO Contact who was able to help me out, it cast a love spell that brought my husband back to me and to his kids. Thanks so much DR. COROBO I really appreciate what you have done for me. Here is his contact if you may require it by solving your relationship email. dr.corobospellhome@gmail.com call whatsapp +2348101571054 bye.

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  37. I’m indeed very happy for the great help that Dr ehiaguna rendered to me,I was diagnosed with HSV 2 on July 7, 2018 and I have tried all possible means to get cure but all to no avail, until i saw a post in a health forum concerning herbal doctor Dr ehiaguna, who prepares herbal medicine to cure all kind of diseases/Infection including Herpes Simplex virus Type 2, at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contact this herbal doctor via his email: drehiaguna@gmail.com He assured me of a cure, he prepared a herbal medicine and sent it to me via courier service, when i received this herbal medicine, he gave me instructions on how to use it, when i applied it as instructed, i was cured of this deadly virus within 14 days of usage,he told me to go for a medical check up and i went for test, I couldn't believe i was negative and the HERPES VIRUS in my body got cured, I and my family are so happy and grateful to God for using Dr ehiaguna to Liberate me. Reach Out to this great herbal doctor via his email : drehiaguna@gmail.com you can also reach him on WhatsApp +2348073908953 God bless you

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  38. tested genital herpes (HSV1-2) positive in 2019. I was having bad outbreaks. EXTREMELY PAINFUL. I have try different kinds of drugs and treatment by the medical doctors all to no avail. Six months ago I was desperately online searching for a helpful remedies for genital herpes (HSV1-2) cure, which i come across some helpful remedies on how Dr ehiaguna have help so many people in curing genital herpes (HSV1-2) with the help of herbal treatment because I too believe there is someone somewhere in the world who can cure herpes completely. As of the past 2 months, however, I've been following his herpes protocol and it stopped all outbreaks completely! To my greatest surprise I was cured completely by following the protocol of his herbal medicine . Don't be discouraged by the medical doctors. There is a cure for HSV with the help of herbs and roots by a herbalist Dr ehiaguna he is so kind and truthful with his herbal treatment you can email drehiaguna@gmail.com or massage him on WhatsApp +2348073908953 God bless you

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  39. Dr. Ehimare has really made me so much believe in him by getting me cured of Herpes with his herbal medicine. I have been a Herpes virus patient for some time now, I have been running here and there looking for help/cure but none could help. I ran into a testimony by someone who testified how she was cured of a terrible disease by Dr. Ehimare, so I decided to contact the herbal doctor. I explained to him, and he said he can cure me. We started the process and he prepared herbs and sent them to me in my country and gave me directions on how I am to use them. I followed his directions and now To God be the glory he could cure me with his herbal mixture. I really appreciate you Dr. Ehimare for bringing back happiness to my life again. thanks you so much friends that has join me to thank Dr. Ehimare for what he has actually done for me i pray to you all for a good life and property, his contact. Email address drehimare3@gmail.com , via whats-app +1 (267) 691-1087 Thanks Dr. Ehimare for your help in my life and family... and most especially to you Dr. THANKS. 

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  40. - [ ] I'm here to testify about the great work Dr Osebor did for me. I have been suffering from (HERPES) disease for the past 5 years and had constant pain, especially in my knees. During the first year,I had faith in God that i would be healed someday.This disease started circulating all over my body and i have been taking treatment from my doctor, few weeks ago I came across a testimony of one lady on the internet testifying about a Man called Dr Osebor on how he cured her from HIV Virus. And she also gave the email address of this man and advise anybody to contact Dr Osebor for help for any kind of sickness that he would be of help, so I emailed him on ( oseborwinbacktemple@gmail.com ) telling him about my (HERPES Virus) he told me not to worry that i was going to be cured!! Well i never believed it,, well after all the procedures and remedy given to me by this man few weeks later i started experiencing changes all over me as Dr Osebor assured me that i will be cured,after some time i went to my doctor to confirmed if i have be finally healed behold it was TRUE, So 
    - [ ] friends my advise is if you have such sickness or any other at all you can contact Dr Osebor via email. { oseborwinbacktemple@gmail.com }or call or what sapp him on( +2348073245515 )
    - [ ] DR osebor CAN AS WELL CURE THE FOLLOWING DISEASE:-
    - [ ]  HIV/AIDS
    - [ ]  HERPES
    - [ ] CANCER
    - [ ] ALS
    - [ ] cancer 
    - [ ] Diabetes
    eye problem etc.

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  41. I am very happy today because i never thought i would be able to leave up

    till this day.i am Benson Caroline from Texas. i was infected with HERPES

    VIRUS. this disease has been with me for the past 3 years now i have gone

    to several hospitals to seek for cures but all they give to me are some

    drugs which has taking almost all my savings i had,i was making some

    research on GOOGLE on Saturday morning then there was an health group site

    which i was asked to join by a friend immediately after i joined it, i saw

    some post of people giving tanks to this doctor that he has cured them of

    their HIV disease HERPES VIRUS. and i was so surprised about this i

    collected the doctors contact and i thought of it for about 5 good days

    then i concluded in giving him a try because there was no harm in

    trying.when i contacted Dr LUCKY he told me he was going to prepare an

    herbal medicine for me which i was going to take for 2 weeks and after that

    i should go for a test at any of the hospital,after i did every thing which

    he asked me to do i received the medicine the next two days from a courier

    company which i started taking immediately after about a week plus i felt

    some strange moves in me,i felt like i was getting better when i completed

    the medicine i went for a test at the Central Hospital close to me were i

    was tested (-)negative i thought i was dreaming i went for another test at

    the St anne's hospital it was still the same then i believed i was really

    free from this disease today i have got-in a new job and i am also married

    to a beautiful wife all tanks to Dr LUCKY here is his contact details for

    any one who is passing true any kind of sickness or disease he will be

    willing to help you too.Email him now Via... herbalcure09@gmail.com you can

    also call or whatsapp him on +1-217-310-6945

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  42. months ago I felt some pains and I went to the hospital my doc told me I had Herpes about 1 year ago and I need to start the treatment early, he gave me some medicine to be taking and I told him no I’ll not, because I hated taking medicine when I won’t not see cure for the purpose. After I got home I started getting worried searching for strong advice and I found valid natural treatment online a lot of people says they got herpes cure from DR ODUDU and I contacted DR ODUDU that same day I purchase his cure online, after three weeks of taking the herbal treatment i got cured totally. i tested negative all thank to DR ODUDU you can reach out to him through his email: [dr.oduduherbalhome@gmail.com ] or message him on WhatsApp +2348101571054 stay safe and bless you

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  43. I want to share my testimonies to the general
    public on how this great man called Dr OLOKUN who cure my herpes. I have been a HERPES patient for over 9 Months and i have been in pains until i came across this lady when i traveled to Africa for business trip who happer and she told me that there is this great herbal doctor that help her tocure her herpes and she gave me his email address for me to contact and i did as she instructed. The man Dr OLOKUN told me how much to buy the
    herpes herbal medication and how i will get it, which i did. And to my
    greatest surprise that i took the Herpes herbal medicine for just two week as he
    instructed and behold i went for a herpes test, to my greatest surprise for the
    doctor confirmed me to be herpes free and said that i no longer have
    herpes in my system and till now i have never felt any pains nor herpes again, so i
    said i must testify the goodness of this man to the general public. So if
    you are there surfing from this Herpes problems or any deadly disease or
    other disease for i will advice you to contact him on his working
    email: drolokuntemple@gmail.com OR on his cell phone +2348132537313 whatsapp number
    +2348132537313

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  44. I have been suffering from a deadly disease (Hsv) for the past 2 years now, I had spent a lot of money going from one places to another, from churches to churches, hospitals have been my home every day residence. Constant checks up have been my hobby not until this faithful day, I was searching through the internet, I saw a testimony on how Dr Ehimare helped someone in curing his (Hsv) herpes disease, quickly I copied his email which is drehimare3@gmail.com just to give him a test I spoke to him, he asked me to do some certain things which I did, he told me that he is going to provide the herbal cure to me, which he did, then he asked me to go for medical checkup after some days after using the herbal cure, behold I was free from the deadly disease, he only asked me to post the testimony through the whole world, faithfully am doing it now, please brothers and sisters, he is great, I owe him in return. if you are having a similar problem just email him on Drehimare3@gmail.com Or whatsapp him via +1 (267) 691-1087

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  45. Good day to you all from the United States,I have been suffering from (HERPES) disease for the last eight years and have had constant pain, especially in my private parts. During the first year,I had faith in God that i would be healed someday.This disease started circulate all over my body and i have been taking treatment from my doctor, few weeks ago i came on search on the internet if i could get any information concerning the prevention of this disease, on my search i saw a testimony of someone who has been healed from (Hepatitis B diabetes) by this Man Dr Ehimare and she also gave the email address of this man and advise me to contact him for any sickness that he would be of help, so i wrote to Dr Ehimare telling him about my (HERPES Virus) he told me not to worry that i was going to be cured!! hmm i never believed it,, well after all the procedures and remedy given to me by this man, few weeks later i started experiencing changes all over me as Dr Ehimare assured me ,after some time i went to my doctor to confirmed if i have be finally healed, behold it was TRUE, email Dr Ehimare on : (drehimare3@gmail.com ) whatsapp him : +1 (267) 691-1087 And He also have herbs medicine to cured the following diseases; eczema,urethra wart,chronic problems.Herpes, Cancer, Als,Hepatitis, Diabetes, HPV,Infections,ulcer ETC

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  46. Am really grateful and thankful for what Doctor Ehimare has done for me and my family. I Was having HERPES for good three years with no solution, the diseases almost took my life and because I was unable to work and I was also loosing lots of money for medication, but one faithful day when I went online, I met lots of testimonies about this great man so I decided to give it a try and to God be the glory he did it. he cured me of my diseases and am so happy and so pleased to Write about him today. if you need his help or you also want to get cured just the way I got mine, just him Doctor Ehimare  Whatsapp him ; +1 (267) 691-1087 or his email address drehimare3@gmail.com and get your healing. He has cure for other deadly diseases like Diabetes, Hiv/Aids, Hepatitis of all types and Cance

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  47. [ ] I'm here to testify about the great work Dr Ehimare did for me. I have been suffering from (HERPES) disease for the past 5 years and had constant pain, especially in my knees. During the first year,I had faith in God that i would be healed someday.This disease started circulating all over my body and i have been taking treatment from my doctor, few weeks ago I came across a testimony of one lady on the internet testifying about a Man called Dr Ehimare on how he cured her from HIV Virus. And she also gave the email address of this man and advise anybody to contact Dr Ehimare for help for any kind of sickness that he would be of help, so I emailed him on ( Drehimare3@gmail.com ) telling him about my (HERPES Virus) he told me not to worry that i was going to be cured!! Well i never believed it,, well after all the procedures and remedy given to me by this man few weeks later i started experiencing changes all over me as Dr Ehimare assured me that i will be cured,after some time i went to my doctor to confirmed if i have be finally healed behold it was TRUE, So - [ ] friends my advise is if you have such sickness or any other at all you can contact Dr ehimare via email. { Drehimare3@gmail.com }or call or what sapp him on + 1 (267) 691-1087- [ ] DR Ehimare CAN AS WELL CURE THE FOLLOWING DISEASE:-- [ ] HIV/AIDS- [ ] HERPES- [ ] CANCER- [ ] ALS- [ ] cancer - [ ] Diabetes

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  48. God bless Dr. Okuofoh for his marvelous work in my life, I was diagnosed with HERPES in 2019 and I was taking my medications, I wasn't satisfied, I needed to get the HERPES out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HERPES and I saw a testimony about Dr. Okuofoh, how he cured HERPES with his herbal medicine, I contacted him and he guided me. I asked for solutions, he started the remedy for my health, he sent me the medicine through UPS SPEED POST. I took the medicine as prescribed by him and 3 weeks later I was cured of HERPES completely, thank you Dr. Okuofoh and I will forever be grateful to you and a lot of people will also reach out to you for help, thank you sir, and if you know that you have HERPES and you don't know how you can cure it, so contact Dr. Okuofoh and he can give you a herbal medication to take and you will get cure permanently without any side effects, Email: drokuofohherbalhomehealing@gmail.com
    Call or WhatsApp +2349050141449.

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  49. A VERY SHORT STORY HOW I GOT CURED FROM HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS (HSV2)
    Herpes simplex virus is said to have no cure, just as i was told by my family doctor that herpes can not be cured but can be controlled, Although i was a very stubborn person i never believed in what my doctor told me about herpes having no cure Am a very honest person who believe in nature and i also believed that there could be cure somewhere in the world, I kept my faith so strong and kept on doing my research till i finally came across Dr. Aza Blessed from west Africa He is one of the oldest herbalist after Dr. Sebi and total am a living testimony to his herbal cure to herpes, i became herpes Negative on the 17/05/2021 after using the herbal medication DR. Aza BLESSED mailed to me along with the prescriptions and today its been 2 years and herpes is not traceable in my body system, All thanks To Dr. Aza BLESSED For More Info on how to get cured Contact DR . Aza now on EMAIL : (drazaherbalcenter@gmail.com ) Or CALL/WHATS APP (+1(315) 795 1518 ) or his website:www.drazaherbalcenter.com ..

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  50. Thanks to the great Dr Ehimare herbalist doctor that has cured many people of HPV DISEASE today i am here to testify on his wonders on my life. for changing my life for the better after all the frustration of getting cured finally i got introduce to DR.Ehimare for which i believe has a cured after reading all his testimonies. after writing to him. he responded quick to me that i will be cured for my HPV DISEASE once i am able to receive his herbal medicine. afterwards he prepared my herbal cure and sent to me and when i did received it and used it. i was surprised that there was changes going on in my body. behold after using the medicine for the days he assured me that i should go and test myself. and getting there i was found HPV negative, and even the doctor was surprise and told me this can only be a miracle. i'm completely cured today and that happened by the great herbal remedy. contact DR.Ehimare Now on his email:drehimare3@gmail.com or his WhatsApp Number::+1 (267) 691-1087

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  51. I thought the physicians says there is no cure for HSV 2!!! I am telling you today that DR.UMA cure HSV 2 with his herbal medicine and once you get cured you are cured forever it is never reversible, I have been suffering for this deadly disease called h HSV 2 for more than a 2years and lost all hope because my doctor says there is no cure for HSV 2. Brethren I saw a testimony on the internet on how DR.UMA cure HSV, Hapatitis etc with his herbal medication and an email and watsapp to contact him was also displayed, I thought this was joke but I decided to contact him and he replied telling me not to worry that my problem is over . DR.UMA sent me a herbal medication to drink for one month but only 2weeks I feel strange and I went to my doctor and he confirmed me negative. He can help you too. Contact him via email...dr.umaherbalcenter@gmail.com WhatsApp +2347035619585. He is capable of curing AUTISM, HERPES, HPV, HSV1&2, HEPATITIS A B C, and DIABETES.

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  52. Herbs are very good in eliminating viruses / diseases which I think have no cure, I was able to get rid of HSV1 & 2 and HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE after using the herbal medicine I ordered from dr kokobi. y'all shouldn't be carried away by what the medical doctor told you. Herbal remedies have the best solution. contact him via his Email kokobiherbalremedycentre@gmail.com or whatsapp +2349055346858 below he has the cure to any illness/diseases

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